Safer Swiping, Better Dating

Profiles are highlights reels. People are… more complex.

• Ask questions. Take your time. Let things unfold like they would in real life.
• Do a quick sense-check: use reverse image searches and a scroll through social media can tell you a lot.
• Most apps work hard behind the scenes to spot and remove fake accounts. If something feels off, trust that little “hmm” feeling and hit ‘report’.

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Sometimes your friends spot red flags before you do.

• Run things past someone you trust. A fresh pair of eyes helps.
• Be open to their take on things, even if it’s not what you hoped to hear.
• Big warning sign: anyone who asks you to keep them secret from others 🚩

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Dating apps exist for a reason, and safety is one of them.

• Built-in messaging tools are there to help you get to know someone securely.
• Many apps have invested heavily in features that are there to protect you – that’s why scammers often push to move you off the platform quickly.
• If someone’s rushing you to switch apps or platforms, pause and ask why.

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The right person won’t rush you. 

• Never feel pressured to share photos, information, or personal details.
• Once something’s sent, you can’t take it back, so go at your own pace and keep details private until trust is earned
• Share gradually, and use privacy, blocking and reporting tools whenever something doesn’t feel right.

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No exceptions. No “just this once”. No tragic backstory.

• Any request for money (urgent or emotional) is a major red flag.
• Someone keen to send you money as a favour or a gift? Not always as sweet as it sounds.
• Dating platforms are for connections, not financial favours. Report anything that looks suspicious.

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You’re in control — and the tools are there to support you.

• Most dating apps now make it easy to report suspicious behaviour, or anything that doesn’t seem quite right. A few taps is often all it takes.
• Reporting isn’t overreacting. It helps protect your experience and others using the app.

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It’s a sign you’re in good hands.

• The ODDA member badge shows an app or site is committed to standards that support safer, better online dating.
• Members work to give users clearer controls, better protections, and a more transparent experience.
• It’s one more way to feel confident about where (and how) you’re dating online.

Dating should feel exciting and fun, not uncomfortable. Trust your instincts.

If you’re unsure, ODDA can help guide you.

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